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Women and the "Mid-life Crisis"

March 10, 2022Self-Care Central

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Do you feel it? I do. It’s an exhaustion that I’ve never known before. Is it because I’m getting older? Probably. Is it because I’m juggling a lot at one time? Perhaps…but frankly that’s not anything new. Is it because of the last two years and COVID impacts? I’m sure that has something to do with it.

But the more likely reason is that fact that I’m 51, and I’ve packed a lot of living in those 51 years and intend to continue doing that for hopefully many years to come. I just lost my father and feel the pressure of making sure my mom is taken care of and doing well from the complete opposite side of the country in the opposite corner. I’m running two businesses. I have no doubt that I’m experiencing the start of menopause. I’m trying to plan for my retirement in an economy that wants to keep sending me signals that my retirement funds may not be enough between market volatility and healthcare costs. And I’m reassessing my priorities and how I want to spend my time. Yeah…I’m pretty sure that’s what people call a midlife crisis.

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